They say the photography industry is a small one; but it's also really big. And scary. It's funny though, how in an industry filled with so many amazing people, it's easy to feel alone. I remember my first experience at WPPI a few years back; I sat in classes alone, walked the halls of the convention center alone, I ate in the food court alone. My evening schedule was quiet; definitely not filled with all the parties that were going on every night.
I left my first WPPI experience with only a handful of introductions, people whom I never communicated with again. It was a horrible feeling. I vowed that I would step out of my comfort zone from that point on and make an effort to network and meet more of my industry peers. That year, I attended more workshops, conventions, shows and events and joined Twitter. Now I leave each experience with new contacts who always seem to become dear friends. I'm not alone anymore and it feels great.
Recently, I joined a couple of quite large photography groups on Facebook. It was overwhelming at first just trying to keep up with the hundred of posts made a day! I couldn't help wondering if these people actually worked or if they just posted stuff to Facebook all day long? Lol. I recognized a few friends in the group and I also made a few new ones. Within a week I was just one of the gang! I felt at ease and began commenting on topics but it wasn't long before the fun stopped. Last Friday I commented on a particular topic - one that apparently has photogs divided; you are either for it or vehemently against it. I learned quickly that there wasn't much room for a healthy exchange of opinions and debate. It wasn't long before I was attacked on a personal level, my talent & abilities as photographer were questioned, as were my intelligence, my business sense and marketing knowledge, or blatant lack thereof. I had never met or even heard of this person, and yet she was publicly slinging insults. Just where, when and how did this all go so wrong?? Is there no such thing as a healthy debate any more? I wish I had known earlier as I could have skipped all my college debate classes!
Then last night, I received a notice from Facebook that some of my images had been flagged and removed as they were "offensive in nature". The photos had been up for more than 2, 3 and even 8 months and just NOW they were being flagged? Just 48 hours earlier I had voiced an opposing opinion on a discussion board....was this just a coincidence, or was it related? Either way, I'll never really know the truth.
My Twitter philosophy is simple: if you don't like what someone is saying then unfollow. It's simple. And I live my life that way also; live and let live. You do you, and let me do me. Equally simple philosophies, don't you think? So knowing full well the Facebook reporting process is not an automated system, I definitely can't help feeling betrayed by a fellow photographer. If I have posted a photo that offends you in any way, then please let me know. Let's discuss it - don't hide in anonymity behind the guise of high morals.
So even though I was hurt by this childish act, I'm going to take the high road and choose to believe that whoever reported my photos is just jealous of my work. They say you know you've made it when you have haters!
Have an awesome day! xoxo